Dear blog-o-sphere friends,
Welcome one again to another episode of Woven Together. I am sorry that neither Heather nor I have updated in quite. Life around the Will household has been busy of late, but we felt that it was time to once again give everyone an update on our lives. Our online auction went pretty well for a first attempt, and we are thankful to all who contributed to it, and to all those who bid on the various items.
With no further adieu, the big news:
Heather is 11 weeks pregnant. Yes, that's right. P-R-E-G-N-A-N-T. The impossible.
I'll say it again if you missed it: Heather is pregnant.
We have kept this news off the blogsphere until now, as we wanted to wait to share this news until we were close to the end of the first trimestet. If something had gone wrong early, it would have been very painful to talk about, and so we waited. And now, after seeing the baby's heartbeat (and heart valves) during Heather's third OB-GYN visit, we decided to unleash this news on the world. I am guessing that if you are reading this, you probably already know about this via Facebook, where we announced yesterday. If not, now you are in the loop too.
To answer the question that this post will most likely raise, yes, we still plan to adopt, but no, we are not going to continue working through the process during Heather's pregnancy. We both feel that adopting is still a route we want to take, but feel that it is in our (and the baby's) best interest to hold off until after the birth of our first child. Hopefully, you are as excited about this as we are! We plan to keep the blog, but probably won't update all that often, at least until the baby is born. After that, well, you will probably get to read to your heart's content. In the meantime, we hope that this post finds you well, and happy. We will talk to you again soon-ish!
Much love,
-H&J-
Tuesday, April 30, 2013
Thursday, March 14, 2013
On-Line Auction
Good Morning Everyone!
Today is the kickoff of our on-line auction. We could not be more thankful for everyone who has donated. The auction will start at 8 am today and run for 2 weeks. We will be sending out reminders (mostly on Facebook) as the end gets closer. The link to our auction is: www.32auctions.com/woventogetheradoption
Check it out and let me know if you have any questions.
Thank you in advance for bidding!
Friday, March 8, 2013
Auction
Hello everyone. I want to start by apologizing. It has been too long since we have updated all of you. 2 weeks ago we posted a movie gift card up for raffle. There were no bids. Because of this John and I have been brainstorming for what we would like to do next. I have a dining room table filled with items to sell to raise money for our adoption. So.... we will be holding an on-line auction starting next week Thursday at 8 am. There will be lots of items to bid on. John and I will post links on Facebook and here so keep an eye out. The auction will be open for 2 weeks.
Thursday, February 21, 2013
2/21/13
Hi friends,
I want to start by saying thank you for all of your generous donations. John and I have raised $9,229 with your help and we couldn’t be more grateful.
We are about to start a new fundraising push to raise the rest of the funds that we need to complete the adoption process. I want to be completely transparent with all of you and so I will show you the exact breakdown of what we need to raise
$20,600 – to be listed as a waiting family (raised close to ½ of this. YAY! And Thank You!)
$2,000- $3,000 - Home Study (this insures we will be suitable parents and have a safe home)
$3,000+ for Birthmother expenses
Approx. $8,000 – legal fees
This brings us to the whopping total of: $34,600
This seems like a daunting number, but John and I have complete faith that God will make it happen. The hard part is to remember that He will make it happen on His time not our time.
This brings us to our new fundraising idea. We are going to start an on-line raffle. Each week we will post one item to bid on. This week we are raffling off a $50 gift card to a movie theatre of your choice. Every $5 that you donate will earn you one entry in the drawing. The drawing will be held next Thursday morning and the winner will be announced on this blog. We have many more exciting items being donated for us to raffle off in the coming weeks. So keep checking back if movies aren’t your thing.
We hope all of you have a great week.
--Heather & John
Thursday, January 31, 2013
1/31/13
Friends,
After much discussion with Heather, and a long string of weeks where I have been unable to devote the time to the blog that I would like, we have decided that until we reach a major milestone (getting listed as a waiting family, etc), or we get a specific request for a topic, we will begin limiting our posts to once a month. The plan is to update the blog on the 3rd Thursday of each month (I'm calling it: "Anything can happen Thursday [fans of BB will get it]". At that time, we will update all of you on the events of the past month, and fill your heads with the mundane doings of school teachers. Also, hopefully, we will have more substantial news regarding the adoption than we've had recently. Before we part, however, I want to give a special shout-out to a former cabinmate of mine from 1990, as he and his family gave a substantial donation to our cause. Our deepest gratitude goes out to him, and his family, and he has proven once again the lifelong bond that Shewahmegon gave us lucky few. Thank you!
Until we meet again my friends, may God hold you in the palm of His hand,
-H&J-
After much discussion with Heather, and a long string of weeks where I have been unable to devote the time to the blog that I would like, we have decided that until we reach a major milestone (getting listed as a waiting family, etc), or we get a specific request for a topic, we will begin limiting our posts to once a month. The plan is to update the blog on the 3rd Thursday of each month (I'm calling it: "Anything can happen Thursday [fans of BB will get it]". At that time, we will update all of you on the events of the past month, and fill your heads with the mundane doings of school teachers. Also, hopefully, we will have more substantial news regarding the adoption than we've had recently. Before we part, however, I want to give a special shout-out to a former cabinmate of mine from 1990, as he and his family gave a substantial donation to our cause. Our deepest gratitude goes out to him, and his family, and he has proven once again the lifelong bond that Shewahmegon gave us lucky few. Thank you!
Until we meet again my friends, may God hold you in the palm of His hand,
-H&J-
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
A Fun(-ish) Request
Meine Damen und Herren,
Ich hoffe Entdeckungen dieses Buchstaben Sie gut! Nichts viel ist hinsichtlich der Annahme diese Woche geschehen. Und so, entschied mich ich, auszuprobieren mein Deutsch von den Jahren vor. Ich hoffe, dass Sie es einfach zu lesen finden und von den bedeutenden Fehlern freigeben.
No, that was not a mistake. I meant to write all of that in German. Please don't use a German-English translator to look the previous paragraph up- you will get a garble that makes no sense whatsoever. The reason that I decided to write a paragraph in German is that we have had no real news on the adoption front this week, and I have begun reaching the limits of my knowledge of adoption. Without any news, I am finding it difficult to continue posting on the subject of adoption without a) wandering aimlessly around a post and making no point, and b) writing a post that in no way is related to adoption (which I find to be a bad option, given that the whole point of this blog is to talk about adoption.
And so.
My request.
1) Please don't use a cheap trick like funny spacing while writing things for others to read.
2) Please send me an e-mail, text, FB message, snail-mail, or phone call, which should include any questions you have, or any topics you would like me to write about. I think that with your input, we can make this blog more interesting, cogent, and concise. The more information that I know that you want, the more easily I can provide it to you. Hopefully, you will provide me enough topics to write about so that I won't ever again have to write verbose and arcane posts about trivialities and sundries. Heather and I appreciate your support of the blog, and we look forward to discussing your interests in the near future.
Seien Sie meine Freunde wohl,
-H&J-
Ich hoffe Entdeckungen dieses Buchstaben Sie gut! Nichts viel ist hinsichtlich der Annahme diese Woche geschehen. Und so, entschied mich ich, auszuprobieren mein Deutsch von den Jahren vor. Ich hoffe, dass Sie es einfach zu lesen finden und von den bedeutenden Fehlern freigeben.
No, that was not a mistake. I meant to write all of that in German. Please don't use a German-English translator to look the previous paragraph up- you will get a garble that makes no sense whatsoever. The reason that I decided to write a paragraph in German is that we have had no real news on the adoption front this week, and I have begun reaching the limits of my knowledge of adoption. Without any news, I am finding it difficult to continue posting on the subject of adoption without a) wandering aimlessly around a post and making no point, and b) writing a post that in no way is related to adoption (which I find to be a bad option, given that the whole point of this blog is to talk about adoption.
And so.
My request.
1) Please don't use a cheap trick like funny spacing while writing things for others to read.
2) Please send me an e-mail, text, FB message, snail-mail, or phone call, which should include any questions you have, or any topics you would like me to write about. I think that with your input, we can make this blog more interesting, cogent, and concise. The more information that I know that you want, the more easily I can provide it to you. Hopefully, you will provide me enough topics to write about so that I won't ever again have to write verbose and arcane posts about trivialities and sundries. Heather and I appreciate your support of the blog, and we look forward to discussing your interests in the near future.
Seien Sie meine Freunde wohl,
-H&J-
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
Last Week's Post
Friends,
I am sorry to be posting this so late, but last week, Blogspot was not happy with me, and prevented me from uploading this. Sorry, and enjoy!
Hi all!
I hope that this latest installment finds you well, and that things having been going swimmingly for you (if you live near me, you might actually BE sw...imming, given all the rain we have had recently). Please forgive the brevity of the following post- I have reached the point in the basketball season where I live in a state of exhaustion, and so I have to channel all of my energy into teaching and coaching, leaving very little to be focused on writing. I hope you will forgive that. Only a few more weeks, and I will be able to go back to writing deeply meaningful (or at least pedantic) things. However, I will actually use this time to do something constructive, and so I hope you find your time well-spent.
At the request of one of our readers, I will spend the rest of the post answering the following question: "$30,000 seems like a lot of money to adopt a child. Where is all of the money going?"
My answer:
Yes, adoption is very expensive, and it does seem impossible that a simple thing like adoption shouldn't be that expensive. The only way to discuss this is to give readers a rough breakdown of the price list. First, approximately $3,000 is spent on the "home inspection". This 'inspection' is actually a background check run in conjunction with the FBI. To complete the inspection, you are required to hire a licensed inspector to liase between you and the FBI (and any state agencies that want your info). This inspection is only good for 1 year, and so, if after the inspection, we do not adopt within a year, we will be required to get another. The next major cost is birth-mother support. This amount typically ranges from $4,000-$8,000 depending on the circumstances of the birth-mother. Although it is illegal to pay a mother for her child, helping defray living and medical expenses. This money is needed, as birth-mothers choose prospective parents, and a family who cannot help out almost never successfully adopts. The next $10,000 or so goes to ANLC to help us advertise our availability to various networks across the United States. Without this money, prospective birth-mothers would have no idea of our existence, leaving us without a child. It seems pricey, I know, but sadly, even in what should be considered a "buyers' market", the whole process is run through a "sellers' market" paradigm. About $5,000 covers the legal fees/lawyers/court fees associated with legally transferring parenthood between two consenting parties. The final $5,000 or so covers the expense of travel, missed work, accomodations, and food while going to meet your child. Which means, in total, we are looking at right around $30,000, and all of that before a child can ever enter our home. I hope that for those of you looking for details, this post will provide the information that you are interested in. For the rest of you, thanks for reading along. I promise, soon, I will have the energy to write things that are witty and entertaining. Until then, thanks for reading, and we'll see you again next week.
-J&H-
I am sorry to be posting this so late, but last week, Blogspot was not happy with me, and prevented me from uploading this. Sorry, and enjoy!
Hi all!
I hope that this latest installment finds you well, and that things having been going swimmingly for you (if you live near me, you might actually BE sw...imming, given all the rain we have had recently). Please forgive the brevity of the following post- I have reached the point in the basketball season where I live in a state of exhaustion, and so I have to channel all of my energy into teaching and coaching, leaving very little to be focused on writing. I hope you will forgive that. Only a few more weeks, and I will be able to go back to writing deeply meaningful (or at least pedantic) things. However, I will actually use this time to do something constructive, and so I hope you find your time well-spent.
At the request of one of our readers, I will spend the rest of the post answering the following question: "$30,000 seems like a lot of money to adopt a child. Where is all of the money going?"
My answer:
Yes, adoption is very expensive, and it does seem impossible that a simple thing like adoption shouldn't be that expensive. The only way to discuss this is to give readers a rough breakdown of the price list. First, approximately $3,000 is spent on the "home inspection". This 'inspection' is actually a background check run in conjunction with the FBI. To complete the inspection, you are required to hire a licensed inspector to liase between you and the FBI (and any state agencies that want your info). This inspection is only good for 1 year, and so, if after the inspection, we do not adopt within a year, we will be required to get another. The next major cost is birth-mother support. This amount typically ranges from $4,000-$8,000 depending on the circumstances of the birth-mother. Although it is illegal to pay a mother for her child, helping defray living and medical expenses. This money is needed, as birth-mothers choose prospective parents, and a family who cannot help out almost never successfully adopts. The next $10,000 or so goes to ANLC to help us advertise our availability to various networks across the United States. Without this money, prospective birth-mothers would have no idea of our existence, leaving us without a child. It seems pricey, I know, but sadly, even in what should be considered a "buyers' market", the whole process is run through a "sellers' market" paradigm. About $5,000 covers the legal fees/lawyers/court fees associated with legally transferring parenthood between two consenting parties. The final $5,000 or so covers the expense of travel, missed work, accomodations, and food while going to meet your child. Which means, in total, we are looking at right around $30,000, and all of that before a child can ever enter our home. I hope that for those of you looking for details, this post will provide the information that you are interested in. For the rest of you, thanks for reading along. I promise, soon, I will have the energy to write things that are witty and entertaining. Until then, thanks for reading, and we'll see you again next week.
-J&H-
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